Introduction to Adult nursing relationships and Adult breastfeeding relationships

We have been happily married for over 20 years. We do not have a lactating relationship. ANR is not about the milk nor is it all about the boob. It's one of our ways we express our love to each other. We are not into role playing or anything like that. We Just love being there against each other and in each other's embrace. Our ANR time is fairly sparse and random. Though we would like it more frequently. Between raising a family and working rotating shifts makes it difficult to find time to spend together let alone time for ANR.

I have always been a boob man. We did not start out with an ANR. We didn't even know what that was. Our ANR started as more as a ABF or Adult Breastfeeding foreplay. But then it turned into an ABR or Adult Breastfeeding relationship when we had our first child.

My wife had a lot of trouble breastfeeding. No matter how much we pumped and massage her breasts. She just wasn't getting enough milk for our baby. The doctor suggested that I orally stimulate her breasts to help encourage the milk to flow. With that we had success. Hence the start of our ABR. But once the milk was flowing I pulled away thinking that I was pulling milk away from the baby. Our ABR continued. But not near as frequent and only during sex. Don't get me wrong, we wanted more.

Several months go by and my wife was no longer breastfeeding our child. Our ABR became more frequent and began to develop into an ANR. But unfortunately the time needed to keep the milk flowing just wasn't there. But honestly, at the time. We didn't care whether or not she was lactating. We were just enjoying our time together. Though I have to admit that sometimes I wanted lactation back into our ANR. I think some how it boosted our connection and helped encouraged our ANR to develop into what it is. It gave us an extra push to find the time to spend together.

Our ANR is at times partly sexual. But for the most part we just like being there with and for each other. We find it to be a great stress reliever and a great way to relax. ANR has defiantly been a strong influence in keeping our marriage solid.

I wanted to make my own blogs and share the data I gathered in 2012 from others I met in ANR sights. (primarily ANRspace.) The issue I’m having is the data is out of date and wasn’t based on any real structured format. Such as age, sex, marital, length of the relationship and so on. All these play apart on why most people in ANR do not have a lactation relationship and on there perception. Eventually I want to get more up to date data and share the results.

ANR is a growing and changing topic. This makes it tough because what was once thought to be all the same. Is now divided into groups. ANR, ABR and ABF Its hard to explain the differences because most of us can't agree on what defines what. The exception is that most agree that ANR and ABR are based on relationships in one form or another. Though some argue that both require lactation to be considered ANR or ABR. Most of us disagree because that would suggest that they are all about the milk and not the relationship. While still others say that it’s the frequency is what defines ANR/ABR. And again Most of us disagree because frequency does not define a relationship.

 

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