We have been happily married for over 20 years. We do not have a
lactating relationship. ANR is not about the milk nor is it all about
the boob. It's one of our ways we express our love to each other. We
are not into role playing or anything like that. We Just love being
there against each other and in each other's embrace. Our ANR time is
fairly sparse and random. Though we would like it more frequently.
Between raising a family and working rotating shifts makes it
difficult to find time to spend together let alone time for ANR.
I have always been a
boob man. We did not start out with an ANR. We didn't even know what
that was. Our ANR started as more as a ABF or Adult Breastfeeding
foreplay. But then it turned into an ABR or Adult Breastfeeding
relationship when we had our first child.
My wife had a lot of
trouble breastfeeding. No matter how much we pumped and massage her
breasts. She just wasn't getting enough milk for our baby. The doctor
suggested that I orally stimulate her breasts to help encourage the
milk to flow. With that we had success. Hence the start of our ABR.
But once the milk was flowing I pulled away thinking that I was
pulling milk away from the baby. Our ABR continued. But not near as
frequent and only during sex. Don't get me wrong, we wanted more.
Several months go by
and my wife was no longer breastfeeding our child. Our ABR became
more frequent and began to develop into an ANR. But unfortunately the
time needed to keep the milk flowing just wasn't there. But honestly,
at the time. We didn't care whether or not she was lactating. We were
just enjoying our time together. Though I have to admit that
sometimes I wanted lactation back into our ANR. I think some how it
boosted our connection and helped encouraged our ANR to develop into
what it is. It gave us an extra push to find the time to spend
together.
Our ANR is at times
partly sexual. But for the most part we just like being there with
and for each other. We find it to be a great stress reliever and a
great way to relax. ANR has defiantly been a strong influence in
keeping our marriage solid.
I wanted to make my
own blogs and share the data I gathered in 2012 from others I met in
ANR sights. (primarily ANRspace.) The issue I’m having is the data
is out of date and wasn’t based on any real structured format. Such
as age, sex, marital, length of the relationship and so on. All these
play apart on why most people in ANR do not have a lactation
relationship and on there perception. Eventually I want to get more
up to date data and share the results.
ANR is a growing
and changing topic. This makes it tough because what was once thought
to be all the same. Is now divided into groups. ANR, ABR and ABF Its
hard to explain the differences because most of us can't agree on
what defines what. The exception is that most agree that ANR and ABR
are based on relationships in one form or another. Though some argue
that both require lactation to be considered ANR or ABR. Most of us
disagree because that would suggest that they are all about the milk
and not the relationship. While still others say that it’s the
frequency is what defines ANR/ABR. And again Most of us disagree
because frequency does not define a relationship.
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