There is several
ways to find people who want a ANR, ABR or ABF. But first you need to
ask yourself. What is it you really want and what is your end goal?
If you are looking
to be mothered, then good luck. That is not what ANR is. Try looking
under infantilism or Adult baby. You can also try ABF (Adult
Breastfeeding, Adult Breastfeeding friend or Adult Breastfeeding
fantasy). Some people within the ABF fall within that group.
If you are looking
to only satisfy your own fantasy or desire. Then again your probably
looking for an ABF. There are people and groups out there for that.
But that is not ANR.
If you are looking
to just to suck on a lactating breasts. Then again you are looking
for an ABF. Though some people or groups may except you in a ABR
(Adult Breastfeeding relationship or Adult Breastfeeding Ring). But
this is not ANR.
ABR (Adult
Breastfeeding relationship or Adult Breastfeeding Ring). This is a
lactation relationship where one or both have a desire or need for
lactation. These relationships are usually short term or for an
exclusive reason such as medical, weight loss, mussel mass, relief of
engorgement, to help a mother lactate for her baby, Money and so
on... These kind of relationships often are formed with just couples.
In some cases there can be several people in the relationship.
Something like a booty call or a ring. Most of these groups keep to
them selfs. Meaning they keep the relationship within the group.
If you have a milk
fetish. That is not ANR. try looking for BDSM and lactophillia.
ANR is not about the
milk and most people into ANR do not have a lactating relationship.
Don't get me wrong. Most people in ANR would like lactation in there
relationship. Some of which for similar reasons described in ABR. But
again it's not about the milk.
ANR is not about
just sucking on the tit. Just sucking does nothing for you or your
partner. There is more to ANR. A lot more.
With true ANR, You
have to be there for each other. ANR is truly a give and take for
both of you. You have to caress and stimulate her nipple with your
tong. Yes, most of the time it may end with just sucking. But the
goal is expressing your love and giving each other affection. People
who are into ANR (Adult nursing Relationships also sometimes referred
as Adult nurturing Relationships (as in nurturing the relationship))
are usually looking for long term relationships. In most cases it is
only within married couples.
So ask your self.
What is it you really want? ANR, ABR or ABF
Once you have your
answer. You will know the direction you need to take. Next don't be
afraid to express what it is you are looking for. Personally I
wouldn't trust most of the dating sights. I wish I could tell you
what dating sites to go on. But being a happily married man, I have no
need to go on them. A coworker has told me of his experiences with
dating sites. And trust me they are not good. Not saying you won't
have better luck. But his issues were basically pay the price or get
flooded with spam and ad's. Even with paid subscriptions he was
getting false hits to keep him paying.
But wait! There are
some much better alternatives. Most ANR, ABR and ABF groups are free
to join. This allow you to communicate with other people that have
the same things in common. Some of these sites have free dating. But
beware, some will direct you to sites that claim to be free.
Don't stop there.
You can also create your own free singles groups using Facebook,
Twitter, Instagram, yahoo groups, pinterest and so on.
You can start your
own blog or a forum expressing what you are looking for. Also let
your creative side out and bring out your fantasy of what it would be
like for you and your partner. I strongly suggest you to keep it clean
and respectful. Otherwise your blog could be marked as adult content
and reduce your chances. If you get good enough with your blogs and
bring in traffic. Your quest for your match could even make you some
extra money. Use creative catchy titles. But never use misleading
titles. You will instantly loose trust in your readers causing you
to loose page clicks and traffic.
In any case be
honest and don't get discouraged. As long as you keep it clean,
respectful and you are sincere. Most people will give positive feed
back. You will get a small few who are judgmental. But you can just
block those ones out. Also be open to all those in your group weather
it's ANR or otherwise. They may steer traffic in your direction
boosting your chance to find your match.
Be willing to share
links to other ANR sites. Some groups and bloggers may direct traffic
your way as a sign of courtesy. Be aware of those who send you links
asking you to post them. Most are often porn or sites with some form
of malware. Only post sites that you know are safe and clean.
Otherwise your blog could be marked as adult content or flagged as
abuse of contract.
So get out there and
express yourself. And please let people know of this blog. So that we
can help others find there match as well and help others learn about
ANR, ABR and ABF.
Thanks,
True.
To learn more go to my YouTube channel. True ANR
